Tara Faye Grinstead

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Above Images: Grinstead, circa 2005


Vital Statistics at Time of Disappearance

  • Missing Since: October 22, 2005 from Ocilla, Georgia
  • Classification: Endangered Missing
  • Date of Birth: November 14, 1974
  • Age: 30 years old
  • Height and Weight: 5'3, 100 - 110 pounds
  • Distinguishing Characteristics: Caucasian female. Brown hair, brown eyes. Grinstead has a small tan-colored birthmark on the front of her shoulder. Her ears and navel are pierced.
  • Clothing/Jewelry Description: Possibly black sweatpants and gray New Balance sneakers.
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    Details of Disappearance

    Grinstead was last seen at approximately 11:00 p.m. on October 22, 2005 at an acquaintance's residence in the vicinity of the 700 block of west 3rd Street in Ocilla, Georgia. There was a Miss Sweet Potato pageant and Grinstead, a former beauty queen, was helping others with their makeup. She left the residence and evidently arrived at her home in the vicinity of street Alder Street and west Park Street in Ocilla. She has not been heard from since.

    Grinstead missed church services the following day, which is atypical of her behavior. She was employed as an eleventh-grade history teacher at Irwin County High School at the time of her disappearance, and was reported missing on October 24 after she failed to show up for work and did not notify anyone she would be absent; this behavior is uncharacteristic of her. Authorities checked Grinstead's house and found it locked. Her white Mitsubishi 3000, the clothes she was last seen wearing, and her cellular phone were at her home, as were her cat and dog. The only items missing were her purse, keys, and the earrings she was last seen wearing.

    A single latex glove was found on the front lawn, and a business card was wedged in the front door. Grinstead's bedside alarm clock had fallen on the floor and was broken, some beads were scattered across the floor, one of her bedposts was damaged and her bedroom lampshade was askew, but there were no other indications that a struggle had taken place. Her car was found unlocked, there was $100 in cash in the console, and there was clay on the tires. Her loved ones stated it was uncharacteristic of her to leave her car unlocked or to drive it on dirt roads. The car seats were also reportedly adjusted to fit a person taller than Grinstead. Her purse and keys were missing.

    At the time of her disappearance, Grinstead lived alone and was unmarried. Her boyfriend of six years had ended their relationship a few weeks before. Grinstead's ex-boyfriend was questioned in her case, but denied any involvement. Their relationship had been troubled, but there had never been any indication of violence. A former student who had been arrested for harassing Grinstead was also questioned and maintained his innocence in her disappearance. The business card found stuck in Grinstead's door turned out to be from a married police officer who lived in a nearby town. He frequently visited Grinstead's house. He said he tried to see her on Sunday night, but she didn't answer the door. He left two dozen messages on her phone that weekend. He maintains his innocence in her case. Investigators stated all three men had alibis, but none of their alibis completely covered the 34-hour period during which Grinstead went missing. DNA was recovered from the latex glove in Grinstead's yard and checked against the men, but it didn't match any of them.

    In February 2017, there was an unexpected break in the case when Ryan Alexander Duke was arrested and charged with Grinstead's murder. Duke had attended Irwin County High School where Grinstead taught, but graduated three years prior to her disappearance. Authorities stated that until a few days before his arrest, Duke wasn't "on the radar" of the investigation at all. He's awaiting trial for burglary, aggravated assault, murder and concealing a death. In March, Bo Dukes was also charged with concealing a death. The two men had been classmates at Irwin County High School, but had graduated several years before Grinstead disappeared. Photos of both of them are posted below this case summary. Police believe Duke killed Grinstead inside her home, using his hands, and he and Dukes took her body to a pecan farm in Ben Hill County, Georgia and disposed of it.

    It is uncharacteristic of Grinstead to leave home without informing anyone of her whereabouts and without making arrangements for the welfare of her pets. She had dreamed of becoming a school principal and had applied for a Ph.D program with this goal in mind. Her loved ones believe she may have been abducted, but little evidence is available as to her fate. In 2010, she was declared dead and her father was placed in charge of her estate. Foul play is suspected in her case due to the circumstances involved.

    Duke Dukes
    Left: Ryan Duke in 2017;
    Right: Bo Dukes in 2017


    Investigating Agency
    If you have any information concerning this case, please contact:
    Ocilla Police Department



    Source Information
    WALB 10 News
    13 WMAZ
    The Tifton Gazette
    The Macon Telegraph
    America's Most Wanted
    Find Tara Grinstead
    The Crime Library
    The Laura Recovery Center Foundation
    Federal Bureau of Investigation
    CBS News
    Investigation Discovery: Disappeared
    WSB-TV Atlanta
    The Atlanta Journal-Constituion


    Updated 8 times since October 12, 2004.

    Last updated March 6, 2017; details of disappearance updated.

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